Thank you anita for replying.

I don’t know for sure…Me and my parents only have a studio apartment, something small, so I have always been watched unintentionally (because we don’t have much space) by them with everything I did, especially by my dad who always watched me and told me how to do things and it annoyed me very much that he was most of the time observing what I was doing. He is kind of criticizing but not in a way that makes me scared, but in a way that makes me extremely annoyed. He nagged me all the time when I was living with them, but it was less frequent now than it was when I was little. For example if I wanted to watch a tv show I couldn’t because he was like “You watched that all day, do something else”, “you’re always on your phone, take a pause”. And he was saying things like these every single day. He was nagging me all the time and saying things that are not true just so he could annoy me, like “you’re on your phone again? you were on your phone all day” and sometimes it wasn’t true because I did other things too. Or sometimes if I took the phone after doing some chores for example or helping them with something he was like “fast, on your phone now”. I got to the point where I was shouting at him for everything he was saying to me, always taking it as a personal attack. Also, we 70% of the time disagree with each other.

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