Dear Anita,

That is what most people say to me about him because they feel I am very giving to him and he does not treat me the same. He does not see it. He was angry at me for expressing I was upset about the status issue because of what he is dealing with his son. And, even if he did feel my being upset was silly, in the big picture of what I bring to his life, I agree he had a lot of nerve acting that way towards me. I think you are also right about his son and creating the problems. He has told me himself he can be selfish and he is surprised how long his wife stayed with him. They had children very young.

Thank you so much for giving me some great perspective on this. It is very much appreciated.