Hi Rose,

Let’s be honest here, the sex can’t be that good for all the crap he’s put you through. It CAN’T be!

I’m of the old fashioned opinion that if you want a torrid affair (single, separated, legally married, whatever) you have to Play the Game! He’s not playing the game! Listen to me: He has no game!

You need BEFORE you sleep with someone: Celebrated birthdays, introduction to his people, rides on his boat (REQUIRED) and no “Suddenly Single” statues on FaceBook (that really means that he wants to date other people).

I suggest that you Ghost him, and post on your social media over this year people celebrating your birthday, parties with handsome men, being on boats (ask people on the dock if they need a crew, most will be delighted!) and your own “Single” status on FaceBook swiftly followed by “In a Relationship”!

The longer you go without him and if the breakup (I mean ghosting) is YOUR decision, the easier it will be.

Remember, he’s not that great.

Best,

Inky

• This reply was modified 5 years, 8 months ago by Inky.