Dear RJG:

You wrote: “I am definitely more than my body”- you have thoughts and feelings, values, likes and dislikes, hopes and dreams. He values none of  these things about you, only your body. So when you were “clear from the start that I ain’t looking for anything just meaningless”- it meant nothing to him. It didn’t matter. He was okay with your body being in his place as long as you left your thoughts and feelings outside his door.

It doesn’t feel good, does it. Better not seek more of that, better not contact him not today, not ever.

anita