Dear Anita,

1. A bad person does these things:

lies

cheats

is flashy, fake, boasting

is not a person of their word

is shameless, acts however is convenient to themselves without regard for others

pretends to be good, when in reality they are not caring, good, etc

uses others as a way to uplift themselves, without regard for what effect it has on the other

2. A good person does these things:

cares, truly, has a regard for other human beings – may even put the needs of that person before their own

is humble

does not make others suffer in order for their own self to gain

helps others, because they are good, not because of an ulterior motive

listens to others, and cares about what the person is saying

is helpful authentically