Dear Lindsey:

Well, you are not over M, that’s why it hurts you to imagine him with another woman.

S is a tall, blond woman, like you, but younger, and she drinks alcohol, you don’t. What you are suggesting, if I understand correctly, is that she has two advantages over you in meeting men, and specifically, getting together with M, and that is that she is younger and drinks alcohol.

And I remember, you had your 40 birthday recently. How do you feel about your age?

anita