Hi JayMark,

I’m sorry to hear of your pain and struggles in the past, and glad to know that you are taking great steps towards a better future right now.

From what you have shared with us it really does sound like your ex-wife has moved on and is making a new life for herself. I agree with what Mark says above – you need to let go and focus on yourself and your children.

You say that you are living in the present now. But you are hankering after a return to the past and your past relationship with your ex-wife. You want a second chance, you want to show her you’ve changed, and you want to put things right. But some things can’t be fixed.

Your ex. obviously doesn’t feel the same way. It sounds as though it was a rough ride for yourself, your ex and your children.

I think you have to accept that things have moved on, that she has moved on. And now you must move on.

with best wishes,

Jay