Hi Anita,

You are so very kind to have read through the threads again. It further proves you really care.

My son means the world to me. He is the number 1 in my life. I’ll take him to get something for his brother, a gift.

I’ll just have to go with the flow and refrain from giving her a hard time. If anything ever happens that I don’t agree with, like my sons surname changing if she got married, I’ll let them know about it, tell them I disapprove, and then just go back to doing my thing.

You might be right about her wishing she never met me. But anything I’ve felt or made her feel was a result of her actions. Which, if she does wish she never met me, it is all her own fault.

Luckily I have a lot going on in my life and I am happy. With much more happier times on the way, as I will one day sooner rather than later be able to resign and be my own boss. When this happens I’ll be able to create even greater times with my boy, perhaps taking him on holidays etc.

I’m always progressing and developing both professionally and in my personal life, and the irony is that everything good I’ve created in my life up to now all stemmed from the pain I felt at her actions back then.

What about me saying congratulations to her? The new baby was born on Monday and I haven’t said anything. Do you think it would be a good idea to text simply saying congratulations?

Dan