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Inky
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Hi prudence,

What family does he have other than the dead mother? Father? Siblings? Grandparents? Cousins? In-laws?

Make a point of visiting THEM, especially on the holidays. When he traipses into grandma’s house (probably without the girlfriend) he will see the whole family there cooing over his child. Then the finger wagging will begin! Your child WILL have the support of ALL his/her family!

If they live far away, Facebook his relatives and post pictures of HIS CHILD on their Wall. Often.

Is he on the birth certificate? I hope so. If not, court ordered DNA test!

Make sure he pays child support, since he is not too keen on seeing his baby. If he doesn’t, send in the police and lawyers to cart him off to jail and garnish his wages.

Later, when your child is a teenager, drop him/her off (unannounced) at his house (preferably for a summer or VERY long weekend). Be unavailable with a locked house. Force the father to interact with his own flesh and blood. This may not be fair to your kid, but at least they can never accuse you of keeping him/her from the dad. The kid may very well say, “He’s a loser. Now I know.”

P.S. You are so much more powerful than some girlfriend of his.

Best,

Inky

  • This reply was modified 5 years, 7 months ago by Inky.