In order for others to love you, you have to love yourself.  You aren’t boring.  No one is.  We all have a story to tell, and you are telling yours.  You just wrote a very personal and compassion provoking blog highlighting the issues you are dealing with.  Find your best assets and interests and build a blossoming, love-filled self.  The more you have self-love, the more you will be able to see the good in others.

Don’t be afraid to seek out a good therapist or spiritual group that will affirm your loving self.  Meditation and Yoga are great tools to find clarity into our lives, and start the self compassion process while finding grace and peace with our shadow self of negative emotions and judgements.   Journaling is also an effective tool in finding insights into our behavior, and helps to nurture love and compassion in our lives.  Find time to nurture your love of nature and animals, which will help you to find your inner confidence and joy.  And also find a way to work in a profession you like which fills your heart with joy.  It isn’t always easy finding the right career, but if it is a profession you have a passion for, it will change the outlook of your whole life.  Self-Love and happiness are there, but they are hiding behind a cloud of critical judgements and negative thinking.  Allow YOUR beautiful light to shine through.  It is there!