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Try to find common ground with others. Sometimes beneath the superficial, there are deep, thoughtful people. It does take awhile to get to know others, especially if we are introverts afraid of social situations, but nurturing common interests with others, and asking people the right questions that nurture intimate, complex friendships that are more than twitter posts and facebook pictures, will have its rewards. Even if you just start with online friendships, this may help you to find people with common interests which you can hopefully turn into real face to face friendships or a relationship.
I have to disagree with you about the people who are humble not being valued. The people who really have made a difference in the world, seem to me to be very humble. I am speaking of spiritual, civil rights, and anonymous financial philanthropists. Yes, the superficial are the loud thunderstorms. but the humble heroes are the rainbows after the storms quietly creating beauty and positive change. Be a rainbow, and find other rainbows. Good Luck and God Bless.