Hi Gregory,

I am so late for this post, it looks like anita has done a great job advising you!!

For what it’s worth, if you don’t want to divorce your wife because of cultural reasons, you don’t have to yet.

Stay legally married to her. Divorce her when your son is older and understands the situation.

However, I wouldn’t sleep with her without her getting tested. If she has in fact been sleeping around, you don’t want to get a sexually transmitted disease.

Don’t try to manipulate her into staying. Let her make that decision on her own. But I wouldn’t fight for her that hard. Just raise your son, that is your primary job!

Best,

Inky