Hello Alisha,

I think you had got a bulky of ideas here and there for free.

My dear Alisha,  we men are funny at some point , when we are not call at wee hour , that in the middle of the night and tell out your feelings.

Please my dear,  taken our advice from the bottom of your heart and put them into good use in order to deal with this man.

I may not say that , the man is ready to marry you or leave you BUT,  he is unearthed of something !!! What you do is; Try to be brave and call him in your own house without anyone as they third party person between. Swollen your pride and let him know how care about him and his friends and family.

Let him try to bite the bullet and tell you the truth , how much he love you. You can mould each other and work hand in hand to achieve your target.

If he lie you then we shall also give other formula of how you find out the truth love from him or his plans.

If the guy was in different relationships and the broke up then I would advise you to give time to heal his heart.

As I speak with you here I am also in a terrible pain.  Check my article , that follow your article.

With this love is by standing together as a husband and wife period.

If you have some other issues you had not iron out then , try to sit down , file those unnecessary evil under the pillow.

All the best dear.

Gregory