Dear Gregory:

You are welcome and thank you for your good wishes for me!

“she is buying her mother’s love.. and perhaps they are also in the same boat”- no, a child (of any age) chasing after a mother’s love is never in the same boat with the  parent. She is chasing something she thinks only her mother has. In her mind, her mother is very powerful.

“Can I just send her SMS message… and wait for the reply”- you are welcome to post to me what you want to write in that SMS message. Try your best to be very clear so that I can understand the message.

“what view do you see .. about this girl who is desperately in need of money all the time? Do you see future on her?”- you shared that she wants money so to buy a home for her mother. The future I see for you, if you get back together with her, is that she will take money from your son, deprive your son from what he needs, and give it to her mother.

“this girl does not go along with her mother manipulate sometimes”- if she is manipulated enough to send your money, the money that should go to your son and to your pilot school (so that you can earn money as a pilot), and give it to her mother, it is enough of a manipulation to make it a bad, bad plan for you to get back with her.

anita