Do you think it’s possible that he didn’t like you having male friends because he was picturing you doing the things that he does with the other females he talks to?  You felt like something was off about him, like he could’ve possibly been cheating, and I would probably trust that instinct in this case given that he was making you give up your guy friends. At the very least, there were trust issues there.

Was he dating someone immediately before you? I’m just thinking it’s possible that you were just in a rebound relationship. Those often start super passionately (while one member uses the relationship as a distraction to get over someone else) and then fizzle out later on.

Other than that, I agree with Anita’s advice. I say just move on from this one, and if somehow he comes back later and you happen to still be interested, be very mindful of the red flags.