Dear Cali Chica:

You have made it around the bend, the turning point progress is happening, you are making it happen. And yes, this stuff really works.

Your best investment in your well being is investing in your relationship with your husband, because you are one unit, one financial unit, you live together, have no plans to ever live apart, you are tied together in this life. There is no other-than- you person in your life more important to you.

Benefit him and you benefit yourself. Work with him, he is the person who is there at the turning point, your progress depends on your relationship with him.

Like I wrote to you before, in my first real psychotherapy in 2011, the therapist first work with me was working on making my then new and troubled relationship work, that was first. I wouldn’t be here communicating with you if my relationship wasn’t good, if I didn’t do my best in it.

anita