Dear Lost soul:

This guy is rude. Why would any woman want a rude man for a boyfriend or a husband. In this short time you spent communicating with him, before seeing him in person, he already established the rules of the relationship to-be: he will be rude and if you call him out on it, he will say that you are “just over-reacting and being too emotional”-

– can you imagine a lifetime like this? If not,  imagine it… over time, with these rules, you start believing that you are over-reacting, and too emotional.. something being wrong with you for being upset when treated rudely. Or if you already believe this just a bit, you will believe it even more.

The man you will consider next as a boyfriend/ husband has to be nice to you, reasonably attentive, expressing that he values you, that he thinks of you as someone valuable, one to be treated respectfully.

anita