Hi letgo,

If you are still reading this, may I add:

As a fellow INFJ/INTJ (I’m one of either of those things on those tests)… It does take two or three dates. We are either thinking too much or feeling too much to truly “see” the other person sometimes.

Yes, I know you are intuitive. I mean, trust your intuition when someone gives you the creeps, but don’t write a nice normal person off all at once.

And since you’re old school, perhaps date slightly older guys?

Good Luck!

Inky