Peggy, Her brother is not my manager nor does he have the power to fire me. Plus, even if he did, and theoretically a relationship did happen and went bad and I did get fired because of it, there would be grounds for unfair dismissal.

Anita, thanks I’ll just continue to be my best self and see what happens. Ultimately it’s just a girl (albeit a very attractive one) and if nothing happens then it’s not life changing or anything.

Mark, I think it could be a little too soon. And if I did do that and she said no I’d feel incredibly paranoid in work.

Overall I tend to overthink myself into this kind of mindset. I really just need to let go and stop creating situations in my head that may not even happen, rightly or wrongly.

In the meantime I’m dating other girls and enjoying myself. So it’s not like I’m desperate or deprived or anything.