Hi sofia,

We are human and humans crave a pecking order. How do we know how good or bad we are if there were no other people around to compare ourselves with?

When people publish or speak of horrible things others have done, it’s a self soothing technique. We tell ourselves, “I may have teased the dog, but at least I didn’t ABUSE the dog like that felon did!”

Let’s be honest, if you hear that someone is a cheater and a snake, would you hang out with them? NO! Because avoiding them is a way to protect yourself, and make sure they get the message never to do those things again. It’s a form of social order.

No more tears.

Best,

Inky