Dear Cali Chica:

To bid SCC a farewell, it is too early to do it today because I need to know, and you need to get in touch with how it feels to bid her farewell. And you will need to clearly define who you are saying goodbye to. For example, you like the engaging, friendly part of you, which makes people comfortable with you- you will not be bidding farewell to that person, will you?

I think that the next step is for you to define SCC, who she is in your current life.

anita