Peggy, you are so right. The first step is to find out his relationship status.
For as long as Ive known him (almost 2 years) he said nothing of a love relationship or even implying having one, though he talked about his parents, hobbies, friends (male), college times, etc. I also did not mention any love relationships because I have been single for many years so there was nothing for me to talk about... I only know a few of his colleagues but not that well, therefore, I do not dare to ask them about his social status. But one thing is for sure -- he is not married. I know my story sounds childish and I feel like I am in high school again, but I never thought I would fall in love with a man under these circumstances. I am just racking my brain about this situation and dont know if I should “do something”, which might sound desperate or inadequate, or just let things flow naturally and see what happens…
I might be one of those people who just “know” that they have met their soulmate, but sometimes I wonder if it is just an illusion of my mind or a gut feeling about him (I incline to think it`s gut feeling as all the feelings that I have about him are so right, peaceful and natural).
Just like you said, Peggy, I thought about “inviting” him to an event, but did not have the chance yet to use an interesting and appealing event as a “starter”. Anyways, he might not be that “social”, as, from what I realized he is a little withdrawn, quiet, preferring nature and the country side.
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