Peggy, your most recent post really got me thinking … you are so right in everything you just said! “Slip a note into his pocket saying that if he wants to talk more here is how he can contact you” — he already has all my contact details. We talk on the phone and send texts on various occasions but the communication is liked to our work collaboration or the friendship that we developed.
“You’ve been churning this over in your mind for two years yet you haven’t even acted upon “I’ve just met my future husband”. Have you ever expressed “I feel as if I’ve known you forever.”” — I never told him that, but now that you mention it, I see no harm in telling him that and see his reaction. It’s the pure truth, nobody ever made me feel this way.
“I wish I was there at one of your meetings – I’d give you a great big push into his arms”. You made me smile! Yes, I could your your help, because I can’t seem to find a way to approach him…
And the 2 plans that you mentioned greatly synthesize my problem and the root of my depression. I will definitely think this through.
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