Dear Cali Chica:

Amazing, “toolbox” is a term my former therapist used frequently. I understand about workshops, just make sure that in these workshops you are not super you and your husband is… less super. Be humble, like him.

Couple therapy is about the therapist making it safe for the two people to communicate with each other honestly. If you are not in that setting, doing this or that workshop, just you and your husband, make sure you are always safe for him to express himself honestly.

anita