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Markleelee,
You met this guy a month ago, i.e. 4 weeks ago. Within 2 weeks since meeting, he barely has time to spend with you.
You don’t know what to do? Let him take the lead if he wants to talk/message/be with you. Go about with your life. It seems premature to have any sort of relationship whether it is romantic or a friendship within 2 weeks of meeting a stranger.
His message is spot on since you don’t know him. You love the idea of him or just the idea of a boyfriend or the idea of a romance. Take in his message rather than focusing on this idea of love.
Create a life for yourself. Focus on improving yourself. Focus on creating friendships or nurturing the ones you have. Focus on meaningful and/or fun activities.
Mark
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