Dear Kay:

Do congratulate yourself for doing a courageous thing: asking him about the woman you saw driving his car even though you were very scared to ask, good job on your part!

Even though you have questions for him, you already know a few answers: he wasn’t honest with you before you saw the woman in his car; he was not honest a short while after you asked him and eventually he told you some of the truth, if not all.

What to do? One thing for sure: no  more kissing and making out with him!

You have to honor yourself, treating your body, mind and heart with respect. It will be disrespectful to yourself to have any kind of romantic or physical relationship with him while he has a relationship with another woman.

If you don’t contact him next (and you shouldn’t) and he doesn’t contact you to apologize- you will have even more answers (without needing to ask any more questions).

You deserve to have an honest, trustworthy man in your life, and nothing less than that.

I will be back to the computer in about 11 hours from now. And again: congratulations for being courageous today!

anita