Anita,

Yes I am going to try and stop reaching out.  He is talking more again and texted me yesterday.  Said that he runs away from me.  I did not push for more.  I am working on taking deep breaths when I feel anxiety.  Sometimes I will get intrusive thoughts and I’m getting better at allowing them to just come and go versus freak out when the happen.

I’m trying to learn and work with someone not talking to me for awhile does not mean they no longer like me, etc.  They are working through their own issues.

Lindsey