Hi Javairia,

Thank you for replying.  Your logical mind is saying that you were OK going that way but your inner feelings are screaming out to you that you were not OK.  You are not being whiny or weak and you are not craving attention for nothing.  This is you being human.

You have written to Kkasxo to say that you struggle with loving yourself.  Let me reassure you that you are just as worthy of loving as anyone else in the Universe.  Loving yourself is the greatest and most precious gift that you can give to yourself.  Make this your number 1. priority and begin right now, today.  Look in the mirror at your reflection and say out loud “I LOVE YOU”.  Make this a daily statement.  Make a list of your good qualities, things you like about yourself.  There is a TB Forum under Fun where people are asked to post the things that they like most about themselves.  Read through the lists and note any that might apply to you – take inspiration and perhaps you can be brave enough to post your own list.

I am listening to you and I am interested in finding out who you are.  Tell me three good things about yourself and three things that you enjoy doing.

Also, can you describe the incident at the beginning of the year that caused you to become so upset.

Thank You

Peggy