Dear Lindsey:

Congratulations for keeping Rule #1!

“I’m  not sure if I should check on him… if he is not at work tomorrow maybe send him a note.. what do you think?”- I think not. Again, see rule #1.

“I know that is against the rules but I do worry about him”- if he lived alone with no phone, then definitely drive to see if he is okay- but this is not his circumstance. He is at home probably because he wants to be home, away from work and away from the people at work- and .. that includes you!

anita