Dear Maria:

“Most of the people close to me say that I was not ‘too needy’ but I just didn’t get what I needed with him and maybe I should have left long time ago”- maybe what they say is true. But people, talking to a person following a breakup, often say whatever will make the broken hearted feel better, true or not.

I didn’t re-read your previous shares this morning, but is it true that you nagged him and terrorized him?

Also: you wrote that it was always you who ran after him in the relationship. What did you do  before that you consider to be running after him?

anita