Hi Aisha,

It sounds as if you are going through a form of rejection.  There is always the opportunity to help someone else – a friendly hello to an elderly neighbor or single parent sometimes is enough to brighten someone’s day.  Opening a door for someone or carrying their shopping is caring and creating ‘good’ feelings.  Joining in community projects and volunteering gives you opportunity which no-one else can deprive you of.  Are you asking the question in the context of a particular person or situation?

Peggy