Dear Gaia:

Regarding #1: “I don’t really feel comfortable going into depth about most of my weird habits, it seriously make me cringe so much”- fine, I accept your assertion. But notice: you are cringing already, without sharing a single thing with me about what makes you cringe. So you cringe and keep cringing just thinking about those things. Sharing will probably make you cringe less.

Regarding #2: please type a conversation you had with her that repulsed you, a conversation that made you dread having another one like it. Paraphrase it (I figure you don’t remember such exactly)- what did she say, what you said, what did she say and so on.

Regarding #3: “her daughters aren’t exactly how she dreamed them to be”- what did she dream of a daughter to be?

– also: she doesn’t really like you, does she?

anita