Dear Karen:

No, it was not you who brought about his silent treatments, that cruel way of punishing another. When he disrespected you, it was not because you were not worthy of respect, but because he was not a decent person.  In other words, really, you are not responsible for his behavior, or in this case, his misbehavior.

I will be away from the computer for a few hours. I have more thoughts about what you already shared and will reply more later. Please share more, anything that comes to your mind and heart. I hope other members will reply to you as well.

anita