Dear cali sister:

Yes, I will communicate with your sister about this- I thought this same thing before I read your recent post. I knew I was wrong before but I was uncomfortable looking deeper into it. Now I am, because of our exchange. So yes, I will- Monday when she posts to me next, as she said she would. I will tell her Monday that I was wrong and explain it, that she and I were wrong about you.

You are  not causing any harm to your parents, really! After all, there was always some harm your mother was complaining about and your father agreeing with her or accommodating her histrionics (she is histrionic, by the way, like my mother!)

I am on my way out to the tap room, and will keep the computer on, will check it when I return in a couple of hours or so. Post anytime, I do care about you, I really do. I want you to be okay!

anita