I see what you are saying. So then – I guess my question is more so – something else.

So when this happens my immediate thought is – hostility, hatred. To go to the extreme of “they aren’t good friends. They don’t even care about me.” It becomes very negative for me. So how do I keep this in perspective. As in what’s the reality of the situation.

Im headed to my sisters place at the moment. In the cab. Her husbands parents are surprising her today and we will go to a broadway show. It should be fun. It will be nice to be around parents who are …. normal. !