anita,

I am sorry that you had no one supportive or excited about it – I’m very grateful that you are here helping others.

“I would say- forget about celebrating your NC decision with anyone. Except for here and in therapy, if your therapist is indeed comfortable and excited for you. NC is still a revolutionary decision in society.”

I think this is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you. It is a celebration of my own.

With regards to friends, I see what you mean. People do not like feeling uncomfortable. So it is not that they “hate” me, but they are doing what is comforting to them. Which I guess to me, tends to be a foreign concept.

With regards to what you asked, I think that is great, but not my focus of writing for now. So perhaps we can postpone it?

WOW. I read the compilations of my posts. I want to hug that person, with so much angst. It was quite interesting to read my own writing years later. The word lonely came up so much. Alone. – And interesting, how I brought it up today as well…. hmm

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