Hi Natalija,

It would be unthinkable to me to wait such a long time for a man to leave his wife and children with no guarantees at the end of it that he would be with me.  How can there be?  There might always be a situation at home that keeps him there.  Although on the surface it all seems very caring and responsible, he won’t be the first man to hide behind his children instead of moving on with a new relationship.  It seems to me that the only person who loses out by all of this is you.

My personal feelings around all of this is that I would make a hasty retreat and get out of there as fast as I could instead of wasting my time on someone who is unable to give any form of commitment to me.  That would be my first consideration.  If you don’t have an issue continuing with this relationship knowing what the deal is, then I don’t think you should wait any time at all for him to be comfortable with being intimate with you.  Make that appointment today!

Best Wishes

Peggy