Dear cali sister:

I will add this part I missed- that you are going through something large, something huge- I will add that and how much I respect how huge it is. I am still feeling thrilled about it, by the way, no less than when I first became aware of it. I will add that to her, tomorrow.

Curl your hair? My goodness! I recently looked again at your photo at your sister’s wedding- your hair looks full and straight and you are very pretty! (your sister sent me photos, she has me email address and you are welcome to have it as well, ask her for it if you want. I spent almost all my time on tb though).

Seems to me that following your NC, your parents simply have one more thing to complain about, one more poor-me-what-have-I-done-to-deserve-it venting. If it was not your NC event (a huge event, I know, you know)- it would be some other event they will be complaining about, can be a small event, but to them it is all the same poor-me-etc.

I didn’t understand your last question, or  not sure I understand: “that you haven’t done that”- by that you mean the NC?

anita