Hi Peck,

So, you want to be noticed.  You want to be valued.  You want to be acknowledged in your true human form.

I’ve counted five people who have replied to you several times as a fellow human being reaching out for help and who wants a sip of the milk of human kindness.  You can safely say that you have been acknowledged, that the issue you have is being treated seriously (you’ve been given worth) and there are lots of ways to get yourself noticed.

Friends  They might not need me, but they might, I’ll let my head be just in sight, A smile as small as mine might be, Precisely their necessity.

The problem with long term relationships is that people become familiar with each other, they stop ‘looking’ at each other in the same way, they take each other for granted.  It’s never the other person that has to change, it’s always ourselves.

If you really want the relationship with your wife to be more dynamic, then you need to be the dynamo.

Peggy