Hi Peck,

Your posts are really great, and I concur with Valora. Your wife may be nitpicking you about your looks because she’s not happy with her own. I think by age 60 many (but not all) experience a decline in energy and good health, feel less attractive, less creative and often dissatisfied with how their lives have turned out, all of which may affect libido. Sounds depressing I know (sorry!) but maybe this has something to do with your wife’s behavior. Everyone copes differently, I think.

B