Hi Jen,

We are allowed to choose what we are willing to put up with. Are you possessive and jealous? Hell yeah! People say that like it’s a bad thing. I would only condone this if he has truly always wanted kids.

It sounds like it’s already a done deal. This isn’t some sperm bank (who wouldn’t take his “goods” honestly LOL). This is probably some poor girl who thinks he’s a perfect husband  (I mean “father”) specimen.

Also, it IS quite a bombshell. I think he was trying to make YOU jealous by saying his sperm is in demand!

Dump him and find someone local who doesn’t want kids or who has grown ones.

Best,

Inky