Hi Chantel,
You made the right decision. Even if you wanted an easy breezy “fun” relationship, him not introducing you to ANY of his friends and family for FOUR YEARS! is a huge red flag. “Is he ashamed of me?” Is there a wife? Worse! Does he not, you know, have FRIENDS? Is he a criminal? Did his family disown him?
It’s all too much.
You called him out. He IMMEDIATELY got defensive, made you feel bad, and claims to break up with you.
Make no mistake. YOU broke up with HIM. Enough was enough.
My suggestion going forward is to date guys who already have grown kids and to not marry someone until all your kids are grown. You don’t need crying in the shower drama in your life. You really don’t. You have kids!
Best,
Inky
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