Dear Cali Chica:

You are welcome. I figure (thought about it further on my walk today), keep the relationship with your sister primal, meaning emotional. Express to her affection any time you feel it, a sincere smile, an affectionate gesture, and minimize thoughts- exchange. Spend time with her talking little, keep it superficial on the cerebral level. Let her do her cerebral exchange with other people and limit your relationship with her to the heart, pre-verbal, pre-thought. Like with a puppy.

It is not that she is not intelligent enough for you to converse with, it’s that it is not a good idea to do so, not for you and not for her.

I hope you rest today and enjoy that hot tea, and a massage this weekend. I’ll be here tomorrow.

anita