Dear Cali Chica:

“have fun, but don’t get too deep”- I say don’t get deep at all, no depth at all regarding insight into childhood and her relationships. A bit deep is too deep. Like I wrote to you before, best for her is to keep her job, to keep her employment, being able to make money and live independently, paying her own rent and so forth. This is her # 1 resource, materially and mentally.

Her relationships with people, anyone and everyone, that will continue to be problematic for a long, long time. You can’t fix that. You can only get hurt trying to fix that.

Regarding the possible move, the “lot of pros to each side”, let me know if and when you want my input (I figure you probably need time off from trying to decide, being you are still working and busy. Maybe better postpone considering the two options for next year).

anita