Why does it matter how old your boyfriends are? I think you are overanalysing things! Let me tell you from my experience…husband of 12y…things get boring, forget the steamy sex that we once had lol and guess what??….that’s how it is for pretty much everyone!!! So I’m not being rude here but do not think for a second that you are all that when married man jumps at you, because what it shows is their boredom rather than anything else. But if single guy fancies you, you know for sure it’s because of you and not his slightly boring wife! And do you want to be part of family where everyone points fingers at you for breaking someone’s marriage, because that’s what you do, you marry/date a person and eventually their family too. It seems to me that your married men and their wife’s are subconsciously your dad and mum. I am parent to 2 kids and believe me, we learn as we go along. There is no book/manual or whatever. Everyone is unique and there is not 1 perfect parent, perhaps some that played the guessing game well 😉