Dear Angelgirl:

It is inconsiderate for this woman to go on and on about how her husband looks after her if she knows that this is your sore point, that you are not married and you don’t have a man to look after yourself. If she is fully aware of this being so painful to you, then she is bragging, showing off, feeling good about seeing envy in your eyes. Which means that she is not  so happy, needing to extract happiness by bragging to you.

Question is: how can you meet a man who is decent and who is interested in a long term, committed relationship. Such men exist, and you need only one of these men so to change this fate you mentioned, that is, your status of being a single woman, not in a love relationship.

You can’t change this former friend-with-benefits, nor can you/ were you able to change your ex husband. This is why it is crucial to locate just one decent man who doesn’t require changing!

anita