Hi sorry for the late reply I have now said I will do what she wants me to do and move out and we will need to co-parent the best we can given the situation to which she agreed since my last post my wife made a move on me for sex again a week or so after and again I took a step back like she wanted me too from the last time to give her the space then this last maybe 2 weeks we had been getting on well I had been given her the odd cuddle and cuddling her in bed but this week I made a move on her and she said no so I left it there and went to sleep but then the next day she stated that I had sexualy assaulted her which I was really shocked that she would say this because in my eyes I had only done the same thing I had done in the relationship to try and have sex which my wife has also done the same but the word sexual assault had never come into it I have always put my wife’s feelings first especially with sex etc and if she said no I would back off but I was just so shocked to hear her speak this way I have been trying to think from a different angle that she may be saying it because of the hurt etc she is going through with the relationship breakdown and can only think of it that way I am currently staying on a family members sofa untill I can get myself a place in the next couple of months but I am living on the hope that she might change her mind and ask me to come back although I think thats highly unlikely I have also sent her a message just to say thanks for the life we have had together and the 2 beautiful children we have had and that my door will always remain open I just felt it necessary to do that thanks