Dear T23:

You are in a difficult situation. Your wife said that her work colleague talked with her husband and they solved their marital problems without the help of a marriage counselor; but you and her are not talking, and doesn’t seem that you are close to talking.

Maybe there is a relatively objective family member or a mutual friend that you both respect, or if you attend church, then a pastor or member there that can help the two of you communicate?

(I will soon be away from the computer for about 14 hours).

anita