Dear Gustavo:

You are welcome.

“I don’t understand her intentions in this moment”- good point, the “in the moment” part. A person’s intentions are not the same at all times. She may have a moment when she intends to consider a relationship with you, another moment when she intends to not have a relationship with you, going  back and forth; wanting distance from you, then finding herself missing you and being surprised by it; wanting to spend time with you, then wondering if it is because she is lonely,  in a new town… I am just guessing here. But my point is, often a person has different intentions and sentiments at different times of the day and night and week, especially when a person is in a new city, and following significant changes in life, such as an ending of a long term relationship.

If I was you, I would form the intention to take her off any pedestal you had her on (what we do when falling I love.. falling down, looking up at the person we are in love with), and get to know her as she really is. This way, if you end up in a romantic relationship with her, you will know who this person really is. It is an opportunity to get to know her with some objectivity.

I hope you post again with updates and your thoughts at any time you want to, and I will be glad to read from you and reply.

anita