Dear T23:

I don’t know what it is that is bothering your wife so much that she doesn’t want to live with you anymore. It could be that she’s been unhappy for a long time, maybe depressed like you suggested, and she chose to see you as the problem and then get rid of the problem. Some people “solve” their problems this way- temporarily because it is easier to figure: this (husband or wife) is The Problem, so if I get rid of him, then my problem solved.

anita